Our oldest always sided with his Dad and Shari would side with me (the fact that Mostly Together Dad and I are on each others sides is irrelevant). A couple of weeks ago, she announced that she was going to be on her Daddy's side from now on.
It was like a dagger to my heart.
I knew the day was coming that she would want to be with her father over me, but I thought I had more time! Throughout the years to come, I know that loyalties for all of the kids will change back and forth and there will be times when the kids don't even like either of us!